A must have conversation with your child.
In the world of parenting every day that rolls into weeks, months, and years are all part of the foundation our children will carry into the future with them.
Please find time over the holidays to have a one on one conversation with each child and ask them this important question, "Tell me how this year has been for you"
Please do not make it about you or your spouse; this exercise is about the child and their perception of how the year went for them. In the process of listening to them you may hear things you disagree with, please do not interrupt or try to justify anything yet.
When our children share their mind about life, we will be able to pick out what really matters to them from their home relationship, school, extended family and life issues. We also get to hear what their struggles are and can ask how we can be of help.
When they are done please do not forget to celebrate their successes before you address any issue that needs correction or clarification. This excersie is aimed at strengthening your relationship with your child so keep that in mind so it does not turn into a conflict.
The final message I would like to leave with you for 2024 is this, what role have I played in shaping my child for the future?
Am I happy about it?
Do I have regrets?
Do I owe them an apology?
What should I plan to do more or less of in 2025?
I will be doing the same exercise with my children over the holidays and prepare myself for a more intentional year in my parenting journey.
Thanks for being in this community and I look forward to continuing this journey with you in 2025.
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